How to Get Kids to Cooperate During Family Photos (Without Losing Your Sanity)
Let’s be real—getting kids to cooperate for family photos is like herding caffeinated kittens. One moment, they’re smiling like cherubs, and the next, they’re rolling in the grass, sticking fingers up their noses, or staging a full-on escape attempt. As a mom myself, I totally get it. Trying to wrangle small children for a picture-perfect moment can feel like an Olympic sport. But fear not! As a professional photographer (and honorary child wrangler), I’ve got a few tricks up my sleeve to make your family session fun, stress-free, and—dare I say—actually enjoyable.
1. Embrace the Chaos
Your kids are not going to morph into tiny, well-mannered statues for an hour, and that’s okay! Some of the best photos come from letting kids be kids. If they want to run, jump, or twirl—let them! Candid shots are often the most cherished because they capture genuine joy (even if it’s slightly chaotic joy).
2. Bribery Is Not a Dirty Word
I’m not saying you should strike a deal with a toddler like you’re negotiating world peace, but a little reward never hurt anyone. Whether it’s a snack, a fun outing after the session, or a promise of extra screen time, a well-placed incentive can work wonders. Just don’t whip out the treats mid-session unless you want photos of a child with a mouth full of goldfish crackers.
3. Let Them Be the Boss (Sort Of)
Kids love feeling like they have control, so give them choices! “Do you want to twirl like a princess or jump like a superhero?” “Should we take a silly picture or a smiley one first?” When kids feel involved, they’re more likely to participate willingly instead of melting into a puddle of defiance.
4. Get Silly—Really Silly
Nothing gets a genuine giggle like a well-timed fart noise. (Seriously, I’ve built a career on them.) Play peek-a-boo, tell a ridiculous joke, or have a tickle fight. The more fun you’re having, the more your kids will want to play along.
5. Keep It Moving
Long poses and forced smiles are a recipe for disaster. Instead, let’s turn the session into an adventure! Walking, twirling, playing ring-around-the-rosy—it keeps kids engaged and leads to natural, joyful expressions. Plus, it prevents those “Are we done yet?” groans five minutes in.
6. Timing Is Everything
Schedule your session when your kids are at their happiest. If you know naptime meltdowns are a thing, avoid late afternoon. If snacks prevent mood swings, bring some! A well-rested, well-fed kid is a cooperative kid (or at least a slightly less dramatic one).
7. Lower Your Expectations (In a Good Way!)
If you’re dreaming of a perfectly posed Christmas card photo where everyone is smiling angelically—lower the bar just a smidge. Instead, focus on capturing love, laughter, and the beautiful chaos of your family as they are right now. Those are the moments you’ll cherish most.
So, take a deep breath, embrace the wildness, and let’s make some magic! Trust me, as a fellow mom, I know firsthand that your perfectly imperfect family is already picture-perfect.