15 Must-Ask Questions for Your Wedding Photographer (That You Didn’t Even Know You Needed!)

Hey there, lovebirds! So, you’re planning your big day, and somewhere between picking out centerpieces and making sure Aunt Karen doesn’t start family drama, you realize—oh snap, we need a photographer!

But not just any photographer. You need someone who’s going to capture your love story, your best angles (because let’s be real, we all have a “good side”), and every teary-eyed, dance-floor-jumping, cake-smashing moment.

That’s where I come in—hi, I’m Paige, your future wedding photographer! But before we make it official, let’s talk about what you should be asking during your consultation. Because choosing the right photographer isn’t just about pretty pictures—it’s about trust, connection, and making sure they don’t ghost you after the cake is gone.

1. “Have You Shot a Wedding Like Ours Before?”

Every wedding is different. Backyard BBQ? Fancy ballroom? Surprise elopement on a mountaintop? You want someone who knows how to handle YOUR vibe, not just someone who’s great at Pinterest-perfect poses.

2. “What’s Your Photography Style?”

Are they all about moody romance, bright and airy vibes, or true-to-life colors? If you’re dreaming of timeless, classic photos but your photographer loves dark, dramatic edits—Houston, we have a problem.

3. “Can We See Full Galleries of Past Weddings?”

Anyone can take a few amazing shots, but what about the whole wedding day? Make sure their work is consistent from the “getting ready” chaos to the “Grandma tearing up the dance floor” moments.

4. “How Do You Handle Low-Light or Tricky Situations?”

Candlelit ceremonies and sunset receptions are gorgeous—until your photographer panics because they don’t know how to shoot in the dark. You need someone who knows their way around lighting, not just daylight.

5. “What’s Included in Your Packages?”

Some photographers include engagement sessions, second shooters, and albums. Others charge extra for everything. Know what you’re paying for before you get sticker shock.

6. “Will You Be the One Shooting Our Wedding?”

Surprise! Some studios send random photographers instead of the person you talked to. Make sure you know exactly who’s showing up on your big day.

7. “Do You Have Backup Equipment?”

Because cameras (like people) sometimes have meltdowns. A photographer without backup gear is a photographer who could miss your first kiss. Yikes.

8. “What Happens If You Get Sick?”

Nobody likes to think about worst-case scenarios, but life happens. A good photographer will have a backup plan (like a trusted second shooter or a network of pros) just in case.

9. “How Many Weddings Do You Book Per Weekend?”

You don’t want your photographer showing up exhausted because they shot three weddings before yours. Ask if they’ll be 100% focused on YOU that day.

10. “How Long Will It Take to Get Our Photos?”

Waiting for wedding photos can feel like waiting for a text back from your crush—painfully slow. Get a realistic timeline so you’re not refreshing your inbox every five minutes.

11. “Can We Give You a Shot List?”

Have a few must-have photos (like a special heirloom, a sparkler exit, or your dog in a tuxedo)? Make sure your photographer is open to your ideas while still capturing the magic naturally.

12. “Do You Help with Posing?”

Not everyone is a natural model, and that’s okay! Find out if your photographer helps you pose so you don’t end up looking like a stiff, awkward potato.

13. “Do You Have a Contract?”

If the answer is no—run. A contract protects both of you, ensuring you get what you paid for and they get paid for their time.

14. “What’s Your Payment Schedule?”

Some require a deposit, some split payments, and some want everything upfront. Knowing this in advance avoids any awkward money convos later.

15. “Why Do You Love Shooting Weddings?”

This one’s important. A photographer who is passionate about capturing love stories will put their heart into your day. And trust me, that makes all the difference.

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Let’s Make Some Wedding Magic Together!

If you’re looking for a fun, quirky photographer who will hype you up, capture your best moments, and blend into your wedding like a ninja with a camera—let’s chat!

Head over to Paige M Photography to set up your consultation, and let’s make your wedding memories last forever.